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Hi! I am Sammie Goldenberg

A couples therapist based in Fort Worth, Texas.

Couples therapy for when love is still there — but connection feels hard

Online couples therapy for couples across Texas who want to communicate differently, rebuild trust, and feel close again. Grounded in Emotionally Focused Therapy.

support for the messy, meaningful stuff

At the relationship co., I help couples across Texas rebuild trust, improve communication, heal after infidelity, and create more secure, connected relationships through Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). Whether you're feeling stuck in the same arguments, navigating betrayal, or preparing for marriage, therapy can help you reconnect with each other.

A relationship-focused approach grounded in EFT

Emotionally Focused Therapy helps couples understand patterns underneath their conflict — not simple learn how to argue better

Together, we’ll slow down the cycle, understand what’s happening underneath the conflict, and build new ways of responding to one another

What to expect in couples therapy

Couples counseling is a space to slow down recurring conflict, improve communication, and strengthen emotional connection. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples identify negative relationship patterns, rebuild trust, and create healthier ways of communicating and responding to one another.

Whether you are navigating emotional distance, frequent arguments, intimacy struggles, premarital concerns, or healing after infidelity, couples therapy can help you and your partner feel more understood, connected, and secure in your relationship.

Signs it’s time to start couples therapy

You keep having the same argument

Communicating feels difficult or unproductive

You feel more like roommates than partners

Trust has been damaged

Resentment is starting to build

You’re going through a major life transition

You want to strengthen your relationship before problems escalate

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Starting couples therapy can feel vulnerable, but it can also be one of the most meaningful investments you make in your relationship. Therapy provides a space to slow down, better understand one another, and create the kind of connection both partners are longing for. If you and your partner are feeling stuck, disconnected, or simply want to strengthen your relationship, couples counseling can help you move toward greater understanding, trust, and emotional connection.

Couples I work with

Whether you’re dating, engaged, married, or somewhere in between, therapy can help you understand the patterns shaping your relationship

Strengthening connection

For couples experiencing emotional distance, recurring conflict, or communication difficulties

Rebuilding trust

For couples navigating betrayal, infidelity, or the aftermath of broken trust

Preparing for marriage

For engaged and seriously dating couples who want to build a strong foundation

Navigating major transitions

For couples facing parenting stress, life changes, separation, or difficult decisions about the futre

What a Healthy Relationship Feels Like

A healthy relationship is one where both partners feel safe turning toward each other, expressing their needs, and being met with care. Even in moments of conflict, there is room to slow down, understand what's happening beneath the surface, and find your way back to connection.

Specialties

Helping couples across Texas rebuild trust, heal wounds, and reconnect after betrayal

Infidelity can change the way a relationship feels overnight. Therapy can create a structured space to understand what happened, process the hurt, and begin deciding what rebuilding trust could look like.

Affair recovery

Together, we’ll explore expectations, connection, and practical tools to support a strong and lasting relationship.

Premarital Counseling

Individual therapy

Individual therapy is also available for clients navigating relational patterns, divorce, betrayal, or major life transitions.

High conflict

When conflict feels constant or escalates quickly, it can be difficult to feel heard, understood, or connected. Therapy helps couples recognize the patterns driving their conflict, navigate difficult conversations, and begin building a more secure and constructive way of relating to one another.

Couples Counseling for Communication, Trust, and Connection

They’re what makes this life so wonderful, even when connection feels complicated. Wherever you are in your story, I’m here to walk alongside you. You might be wondering what therapy feels like, how the process works, or what to expect, and that curiosity is welcome here.

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